Here’s what NOT to say to a single mommy…
“Your child needs & deserves a father…”
Ummm… No. My child needs & deserves unconditional love, compassion, kindness, patience, guidance, nurturing, understanding, security, stability, hugs, kisses, and someone to celebrate their joys as well as wipe their tears away. I provide all of the above & more… and my son is healthier physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually than many kids with both parents.
JRoc has wonderful male role models in my family & circle of close friends… so PLEASE do not try to pressure me into “finding” a “father” for my child, just so he can have one… it will take a very, VEEEERY special person to even be considered filling that role.