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So I Finally Deleted His Voicemails.

Scratch that. I finally deleted THEIR voicemails. I recently decided to pass my iPhone on to my kid after I upgrade to an iPhone 6 (whenever it comes out). So naturally, I started looking through … [more...]


If You’re Going To Surgically Enhance… Do It With Conviction.

I'm pretty sure I know more people who have had their lips, cheekbones, butt, boobies, calves, and more "done" than I can count on both hands. And although I don't support this practice, I say, "To … [more...]


Sometimes I Still Have “Words” With My EX-HUBS About Being A Father… In My Head.

Haven't spoken to him in years. And it's been over 7 years since we first split. Yet sometimes, I still find myself having a "word" with him in my head. Especially when I see other fathers … [more...]


Why I Don’t Give Relationship Advice…

I'm more than happy to offer help in the Divorce Survival department. I'm especially fond of the the Raising Kids area. I've also been known to offer some pretty kick-azz advice when it comes to … [more...]


Need to Forget About a Hot Ex? Here’s My Quick Solution.

This is a quickie. The good kinda quickie too... without the emotional mess that's usually involved. Have you ever had your heart broken... and as much as you tried to move on, you just could not … [more...]


Why I Deleted My Biggest Crush from Facebook… and Everywhere Else.

So there was this guy... kinda had a crush on him for what felt like forever... and he seemed to fancy me right back. We've had a few really fun conversations on the phone, but he opted to TEXTING the … [more...]

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Children Learn What They Live

This is a poem by Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D. I've always loved this, and swore to live by this for my children, even before I became a mommy... Enjoy! xoxo … [more...]


How I’ve Been Slackin’ Off All Week… or Three (03.16.14)

The Ninja Mom Podcast: Y'all didn't know I have a PODCAST, did ya? Well I do and I would be doing a great disservice if I continued keeping it a secret from you... so come check me out because I'd … [more...]


Being a Perfect Mommy is Overrated Anyway.

So I thought I was all "Wonder Mom" because I make my kid breakfast every morning. And home schooling an academically gifted child ain't a walk in the park either... especially since I'm not even … [more...]


Dear Carmen: Why Do I Keep Having to Remind Him That I’m Still Here?

Dear Carmen, I feel so silly writing to you about this, but I don't know what I'm supposed to do. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a little over 5 months and it feels like he's … [more...]


Podcast #1: When Social Media, Trigger Self Esteem Issues – and the 4 actions you can take to turn this ICKINESS into something positive!

    Well, this is kinda cool... I've done business & marketing podcasts, but it's my first time doing a more personal one... so this should be fun! Today we're talking about: … [more...]


When You’re Strong… No One Asks If You’re Okay

I receive texts, voicemails, emails, facebook messages, etc. all day long... every single day. Majority of them start off as... Not having a good day... can you listen? OMG s/he is driving me … [more...]


The Trail of Chaos I Left Behind… (02.23.14)

Yes, I spend 432.4% of my time on the Interwebz dilly-dallying and wreaking havoc. Isn't that what single mamas do? We fall apart and lose focus on our life goals & the responsibilities to our … [more...]


DIY – Birchbox Makeup Box

So, I have all these empty boxes from Birchbox that I've been wanting to make into a makeup box like on the Birchbox blog... but the instructions were too freakin confusing... lol. I finally got … [more...]


Lessons from Oprah about Men

I've seen this all over the web & social media... and although I haven't been able to confirm they're all from Oprah herself, I agree with each and every point... especially ones that I've … [more...]


Missing Someone for What You Hoped They Would One Day Become…

You know... it's bad enough my heart screws me up almost all the time... but to have my brain join the party to really throw me off. Yeah, that's so NOT fun. Like when I'm missing … [more...]


Dear Carmen: When He Stops Texting Back

Dear Carmen, I'll get right to the point. My boyfriend takes FOREVER to text back. I KNOW he has his phone on him, because when we're together, it's practically glued to his hand! There are … [more...]

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Alone Doth Not a Relationship Status of Single Make…

... ahahahaha! i *heart* this! I was with my son's dad for 15 years... married for 11... then a few experiences after our split. That's more than half my life with another person. And believe … [more...]


Dear Carmen: Whoever Tells You NOT to Wear Your Heart on Your Sleeve After a Divorce – Can Kick A Wall.

Dear Carmen, Recently, my marriage of 22 years suddenly came to a halt. My husband walked out of me and our children and I feel as though I cannot go on. To add salt to this painful wound, I've … [more...]


Namecheap January 2014 Coupon Codes!

Here are the January 2014 Namecheap coupon codes: Domain names: NEWYEAR (discounts one year registrations & transfers of com/net/org/info/biz domains). Shared hosting: STARTHOST (20% off the … [more...]


Wut Da Fork is a Tablescape???

Recent conversation: Friend: What do you have planned for your Thanksgiving tablescape? Me: .................... huh?   Understandably, the first associated word to pop into my … [more...]


5 Types of Men Deserving of a Burning Brick Thrown at Their Face.

Bored, Married Men Just as it says... they're BORED. Same thing day in and day out... they believe impressing someone who is NOT their significant other (S.O.) will improve their lives. Never … [more...]